Municipal Politics Isn’t a Zero-Sum Game: Respecting Every Voice
Municipal politics can't be a zero-sum game.
Everyone is worthy of respect and what seems to you to be a frivolous, silly, or vindictive concern often is based in a need that isn't being met.
When I taught and someone was lashing out in class, it often wasn't the material. With adults, maybe they had horrible educational experiences up until then. Maybe their literacy wasn't at a level it could be, and they were embarrassed. Or they were older and retraining for a new job and were feeling lost.
Maybe the idea of not having a car scares a senior who has never ridden a bike in the city? (Senior cycle mentors to help them adapt.)
Higher density might feel like a loss of status for someone who worked their whole life to get a house? (Provide them examples where it worked.)
Folks don’t understand the importance of protecting the lakes. (Give recreational opportunities to folks who won’t get a chance to use them.)
We need to talk less and listen more.